If getting married is a big step for you as a man, it is bigger step to understand the women you marry. Most husbands claim that it is impossible to understand their wife and whatever they do their better half is never happy. Well, it’s not as difficult as you think, and trust me it’s very simple. Of course, each woman is her own individual. Yet some of the major behaviors of a wife are very much similar in any part of the world. So what are those things which can keep her happy? Is your mind thinking Gold, Diamonds, Rubies and all sorts of stones as jewelry? I’ am not going to deny that women! always have a fondness for precious stones, but there are a few other things more important to keep her happy, that keeps her going. So, here are a few things which can help you to make your wife to be crazy about you.

10.  Come out of your shell

Men are born problem solvers and it is in their nature to feel that they have to find solutions on their own for whatever the problem is. However, most husbands fail to understand that a marriage is a purpose to share a lifetime with your wife, and trust me your wife sometimes can give you better ideas to work out an issue, while your mind is confused. Share your problems and worries with your wife and seek help. This makes her feel you care, and she is important to you. Do not hide in a shell making her feel ignored.

9. Notice her worries

Well, not all women cry when they are worried. Some of us have other ways of dealing with worries. Nonetheless, you being a husband should be careful to notice when and if she is worried about anything and reassure her about things getting fine. Understand that it might be a very simplest matter for you, but if she is worried, it’s an important thing for her.

8. Do not yell

I’ am not saying do not fight because fights and arguments are a common thing about couples isn’t it? But when you fight, do not yell at her. It will make her feel more vulnerable and unloved. Your point in the argument might be acceptable, but it can be explained only when both are in a calmer state.

7. Help with household chores

Oh! We are all busy and women today are also a hard working women out. But why is that only she has to do the dirty laundry, helping children, cooking, and other household chores. Quitting your love to your couch and television remote and giving a hand in the household chores will make her feel more relaxed and happy also will be considered as a great sacrifice. Nothing makes a woman more happier when someone shares her work.

6. Respect people she cares about

When we get married, you do not marry one single person, instead we are married to an entire family. She might have moved from her beloved people to live with you, but the love and care never die. Well, there is a possibility that you might not like someone whom she likes as a family member, yet you need to respect the person even in their absence. Do not hurt her feelings by passing rude remarks about the person she cares or loves. Trust me, when you are supportive, she will always understand your uncomfortability about the other person and might not force you to any kind of confrontation.

5. Do not lie even when the truth makes her angrier

Been to a party without telling your wife? Well pal, you know you are going to be busted. Whatever your reasons might be for not telling or going alone, it should be not the reason to tell a lie. One lie will make you lie a hundred times more. Telling the truth might make her angry for a while and might get into a crazy mode but she always gets over it sooner. Whereas, learning the truth from some other source and realizing that you lied can hurt her feelings forever which can be a major disaster in the relationship. So, I believe it is better to tell the truth and get some plates thrown at, than having a cold war forever.

4. Carve some free time

Very busy at work? No free time at all? Well, who isn’t? We all are too busy to make time for anything else, but when you are married, you have other priorities as well, other than making your boss happy. Plan ahead, and try to get some free time and spend it with your wife, just to be in her company. Make her chose as how she likes to spend it. A date night once in a while is always a good idea because she too feels like running away from all the things at home.

3. Buy a Gift

Well, gifting your wife only for birthdays and anniversaries will not work, though that can be another thing for you to remember that you can never make an error of forgetting those occasions, but buying her something now and then can help you to keep her happy in a long way. We are women, God did create us so and we do love being surprised. What ever you buy need not have to be costlier, a simple book by her favorite author, a dress, or just an item carved in a poetic way of expressing your love could make her feel loved. Well of course, you can always go for the most costliest as well if you wish, they are definitely not going to be disappointed.

2. Remind her why you love her.

‘I need you to do this’, ‘I need that’; if you can tell a 100′s of those things, you can also tell once in a day a simple reason why you love her, and what is it about her you like is it not? It’s needed more to continue those silly phone calls just to say ‘I love you’, coming earlier from work just to surprise, late night talks(not arguments) and all those things you did before marriage or early marriage. Do not forget, over the years both your responsibilities might have increased, but you are the same two people who were crazy about each other.

1. Listen

We love to gossip and we want to share it with one person who we love the most, that is our husband. Well, I sympathize your situation but, being a good listener for whatever your wife had to say, be it just a gossip or probably something she wants you to do or just her feelings will always make a great difference, and you will be the hero as well as the perfect husband among all her circles. Well, you do know it’s important to get a vote of appreciation among her friend circles as well, don’t you?