Its really hard to bear the pain of splitting up with your lover, partner, girlfriend/boyfriend after you’ve been in relationship for a considerable period of time. Often people feel completely devastated after a relationship end. It becomes extremely unmanageable for some to deal with separation and such a state of mind affects them not only mentally but even physically. Depression, uncontrolled wrath and emotional outbursts are commonly observable under such circumstances.
A small single reason is just enough for falling apart. And obviously, there can be a number of petty or gravid reasons for ending up a relationship. So, here are the top 10 among those that may or may not be known to you.

10. GROWING COMMUNICATION GAP:

Sometimes, the couples may breakup just due to lack of time for each other. Often we become so engrossed in our work life or family that it becomes difficult for us to spend sufficient time with our partner. This makes him/her feel neglected and disregarded which might lead to a strong communication gap between the two. As a consequence, mostly, the important issues and matters that require discussion and attention are left unheeded.
9:”WE AREN’T COMPATIBLE ENOUGH”:


Opposites with dissenting opinions or thoughts seem to be more attracted towards each other in the beginning of a relationship. It appears interesting to be with someone with entirely dissimilar attitude initially but this attraction fades away with time and when it comes to settling down with each other for the lifetime, they find it awfully unacceptable. All this create misunderstandings causing conflicts and finally breakup.
8. FRIENDSHIP SEEMS TO BE BETTER:

Many a times either of the two or may be both start feeling that they make good friends with each other but are not capable enough to hold a sound relationship. A situation might occur when it feels nice to be with someone but there is an absence of a passionate and romantic feeling. This creates confusion in relationship and the outcome is simply the breakup.
7. “I’M ATTRACTED TO SOMEONE ELSE”:

It can be one of the most abominable reason for a breakup even after a long-term relationship. This may happen that any one of the duo might develop a sudden liking for someone else, deliberately or accidentally. The reasons behind this hardly matter. What matters is the deteriorating affection and love for the partner as we are attracted towards another person of opposite gender.
6. CHEATING AND UNFAITHFULNESS:

When you make a commitment, it means that you agree to spend life with your mate, faithfully. You ought to be trustworthy for your partner and vice-versa. When any one of you tends to be unfaithful towards the other you eventually end up in separation.
5. “HE IS BEING TOO SHREWISH”:

This normally takes place when one of the two wishes to enjoy a whip hand in the relationship. At times your spouse turns out to be excessively complaining and you realize that he/she frequently expresses displeasure for your attitude or may be anything else. It becomes intolerable to cope up with such situations like perpetual readiness of your partner to find faults within you and then ultimately you prepare for a breakup.
4. FEELING OF JEALOUSY:

Feeling jealous is also very common in a relationship and can easily induce in misapprehensions. It has been discovered in several cases that either the girlfriend or boyfriend is caught in a feeling that he/she is receiving less care and attention than what he/she must actually get. The reason is that they began observing that care and attention being rendered to someone else by their mate. And there creeps in a sensation of jealousy which is responsible for detachments.
3. “I NEED TO FOCUS ON CAREER”:

College life relationships usually end up this way. It is a trend that girls and boys fall in love and enter into a relationship when they are in their teens. But, subsequently they start feeling that it is basically the time for building up a career. They consider their career and responsibilities more essential than the relationships and hence they incline towards breakups.
2. CONSTANT LYING:

Lying is the reason why people loose trust on their partner. You might lie to your girlfriend/boyfriend simply in order to keep away from showdowns or arguments. People generally view lying as the best way out of any sort of dispute. You may lie to your partner for a number of reasons, such as to present yourself better in front of him/her or to hide a mistake that you have committed or sometimes, even to avoid hurting the other person. But there are no excuses for lying in a relationship and constant lying lowers down your image. Moreover, you face conflicts, oppositions, arguments and in the end, breakup.
1.“WE HAD A FIGHT”:

A silly reason to have a breakup is that you had a great fight and you do not want to stay with him/her anymore. People often start moaning after a fight that their partner is highly unbearable. Having a fight in a relationship is entirely inevitable and everyone experiences this one time or the other. There occur fights even in the most matured relationships and between the most cooperative pairs. There can be unlimited grounds of discontentment or disagreement that sometimes grow into agitation and lead to a split up.