10 Reasons why one Should Not Make a Girlfriend

10 Reasons why one Should Not Make a Girlfriend


Did you just finish your 12th? Planning to go to college and make a girlfriend there? You might have heard that being in a relationship is awesome but you might not be aware that being in a relationship can be a problem. We all go to college to make our career and the main focus while in college should be on education. Here we have 10 reasons for not making a girlfriend in the college.

10. Financial attacks

financial attacks

If you think making a girlfriend has no bad points I am sure after reading this point you will decline the idea of making a girlfriend when you are in college. If you have been not told already then now we are telling you that making a girlfriend in the college will surely affect your pockets. No matter how you see a relationship but just remember that girls are surely going to cost you money. According to every girlfriend if you cannot afford to fulfill her demands then you are not capable of having a relationship. So if you do not already have a girlfriend and thinking of making one in the college check your pockets!

9. Emotional torture

emotional torture

In college you don’t have to worry about paying taxes but if you are in a relationship then you have to pay emotional taxes. One has to emotionally strong if thinking to go in a relationship. Girls are a bucket of emotions and the torture they can levy on you using drops from this bucket can be hard to handle. We all go to college to figure things out to figure what we need to do in future and make a future not to get emotionally tortured.

8 Girls are distracting

distracting

If your girl wants to go out then in no way you can say no even when you have a test to study for. It is a very big task to manage time between the hard life of college and a constantly nagging girlfriend. It is a constant battle every guy in a relationship has to fight as to whether spend time with girlfriend or give time to studies.

7. Private becomes public

no privacy

When we are in college we tend to make many friends, we live with different people around us. The talks you have with your girlfriend or things we do for your girlfriend is quite hard to hide from these friends. Soon every private thing you share with your girlfriend becomes public. If you do not want to become the hot gossip topic of the college avoid making a girlfriend in the college.

6.  Friendship is not possible

no friends

When you can’t get any time for yourself how can you expect to take out time for your friends. Friends also need you to spend time with them, have fun with them. But, if you won’t give time to them no one will want to be your friend. So if you do not want any friend go make a girlfriend.

5. Dating options get limited

limiting dating option

When you can date more than one girl when you are in college why should limit your options by making a commitment to a single one. College is a fun place to date people as you are not in a constant pressure from your parents. So why waste this fun time by getting into a relationship.

4. Freedom is lost

no freedom

A girlfriend always wants to know what you are doing, with whom you are going out and with whom you are talking to. You have to tell your girlfriend about all the plans you have made with your friends. And if your girlfriend does not agree with your plans you might even need to change them. If you do not have a girlfriend then you do not have to give reasons and explanation every time you want to do something new, hence you have an easier life.

3. Dating comes with drama

drama

If you want to skip the dramatic part in your life when you are in college just stay away from bein in a relationship. Girlfriends can be a headache as every girl in this universe according to guys is drama queen. Girls have their own way of expressing their problems and their feelings but their expressions have lot of drama included in it. So stay away from the drama, college life doen not needs to be dramatic after all.

2. No time for yourself

no time for yourself

You are not left with any time for yourself after being in a relationship. You have to devote a large amount of time for your girlfriend. If you have a hobby like playing football or painting then forget all of this if you are tempted to get into a relationship in the college. When you do not have a girlfriend you have lots of free time to explore your interests.

1. Focus on studies is lost

focus on studies lost

The most important thing when in college that is your studies, become second on the list and demands of girlfriend becomes the first on the list. Guys tend to spend all their time thinking how to impress their girl and forget the main reason why they came to college. If you do not want to lose focus on your studies stay away from girls.